We all have a choice; don’t forget that.

My choice is to stay with you – close to you.

This declaration isn’t hyperbole from some high and mighty energy, one side of a two-sided coin where one side has it ‘all figured out’ and the opposite side is convinced they haven’t a clue.

This declaration of ‘I won’t leave you’ is rooted in the beauty that comes into my life.

I won’t leave you because of the growth I’ve experienced with you.

I won’t leave you because of the hole it would leave in the universe. How does one side of a coin ever truly leave the other?

I won’t leave you because I love you.

I love you for the tenacity and tolerance you bring to life.

I love you for the deep care you provide.

I love you for the way you look, the way you smell, the smile that’s inside of you, the intelligence you carry, the comfort you bring to chaos, and the perspectives you bring.

I choose not to leave you because I don’t want to leave the side of someone I love, someone I learn from, and someone who ignites this type of reflection in my soul.

I choose not to leave, and I hope any doubt planted, by me, in your soul, will be ripped out by the roots never to grow again. Trust in me.

We always have a choice, don’t we?

If we did leave - we did make that choice - everything would be different. Complicated for a bit and things would work out. Afterall, we are incredible as standalone ingredients in this mosaic of experiences.

So - what do you choose?

We have an opportunity to do something incredible on this planet. Let’s stay close and let’s stay together – our two-sided coin is awfully powerful.

Sincerely,

Faith

God bless all of you- and may He send peace and learnings to you during your times on this planet.

Much love- Trav

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He was detailed and methodical.

He combed the trails, the brush, the marsh, and the bogs. He looked everywhere for something that may never be found. The experiences of life caused him to question. Other’s behaviors caused him to question and caused confusion. Behaviors of others ran through his head like chards of glass when shattered. This hunter was unique, as he was looking for reasons, and reasons are rarely visible.

He was persistent and curious.

He called these behaviors “the whys”. These whys were elusive and beautifully camouflaged. These whys were hidden in a way that made them impossible to find and he continued to hunt.

He was lost and didn’t know it.

Searching and hunting for answers to questions had an unintended effect. While he searched for the why in everyone else’s behavior, he forgot the most important why…his own.

His why was at every turn. His hunt, his adventures – always being on the move became the ultimate distraction and this constant movement caused him to miss his why, day in and day out.

“Look around”, they whispered, but he just couldn’t hear them. His why was never hidden. Only others’ whys were, yet he kept searching and he felt confident that when he found their why, he would find his. The hunter’s why was in front of him all along – in the beauty of the trails, the strength of the brush, the majesty of the marsh, and in the ominous power of the bog – if he could only see it.

He began to listen, and he rested.

Unable to find the other whys, he grew tired and decided to sit. Once he sat, he could listen, he could observe, and he could find. It was in his quiet that he noticed the sounds, the smells, the tastes, and the energy. His why shined brightly. It was quiet observation and thoughtful sentiment, yet he could never find his why while looking for others.

The Why Hunter laid down his desire for the understanding of everyone else’s why and he began to focus on his.

This made Him smile – and by Him, we mean God.

God bless all of you- and may He send peace to you during your times on this planet.

Much love- Trav

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The Why Hunter.